Shannon L. Alder

You will never choose love greater than what you believe you deserve and what other insecure people tell your lack of self-esteem to have faith in.

Shannon L. Alder

You will never develop courage if you don’t stand in the middle of the battle afraid and pick up the sword anyway, to defend what is right. You might feel like you are outnumbered, but heroes always are.

Shannon L. Alder

You will never find peace when the need you cling to is not the want you desire. But when does a want become a need... when it is all you think about?

Shannon L. Alder

You will never get to your destination on time if choose to walk two paths through life.

Shannon L. Alder

You will never get what you want if you believe that you are not worthy of having it. God doesn't create us to be defeated.

Shannon L. Alder

You will never know love's depth, until it is gone.

Shannon L. Alder

You will never know the moon or stars, unless you breathe in their solar system and inspect it from many diverse vantage points as possible.

Shannon L. Alder

You will never know the purest love you can give a person, until the day you hurt because they hurt. You genuinely want them to succeed in life and be free from all the chains that keep them from being happy, whether you are in their life or not.

Shannon L. Alder

You will never let go of the one thing that God keeps prompting you to fix.

Shannon L. Alder

You will never let go of the past by ignoring the most painful thing the person you loved has done to you. When you begin to minimize it, second guess yourself and others, ignore it or even pretend it didn't happen you cheat yourself out of healing. Naturally, your mind would rather believe the lies you are telling it, rather than accept the truth. The soul has a way of protecting itself from trauma, but if left in denial there is no growth or change. Healing requires going to that place you avoid and asking yourself why you are so afraid to accept the reality of what happened to you? Why have you minimized it like this person has wanted you to? What is it about your self-esteem that allows you to continue being a doormat?

Shannon L. Alder

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